Tuesday, December 31, 2013

Bill Windsor Admits He is Mentally Unbalanced

Shortly after my post about him hiding and ignoring his lemmings (not even saying happy new year to them) Bill decides to stick his curiously red face out and give his followers another proof of life.  He clearly is enjoying all the conspiracies they are throwing around as to why he is ignoring them and he decided to play around with it.

AM I DEAD OR IN PRISON???? are you really alive and free?
That's the latest news report on me ummm the latest lemming conspiracy, not to be confused with real news. Says I have been missing since August.
Unless I'm having one helluva hallucination with all those pills don't count it out, I am alive, reasonably well, and free in Texas.
I was in Plano Texas for abdominal surgery (giant hiatal hernia)... scheduled for December 15. A terrible ice storm hit on December 7. I had no business being outside on December 8, but hey, I lived in Cleveland and stayed at a Holiday Inn once - so I should be able to handle a little ice. I slipped, fell, hit my head you seem a little confused on the dates here as you originally said it happened on the 5th, hard to keep all your stories straight, stood up with blood gushing out of my right ear which is like the first time in the history of mankind that someone fell hit their head and all the blood gushed out of their ear. I was transported by Fire Department ambulance so you mean ambulance? to the nearest hospital where I was diagnosed with a Basal Skull Fracture along the base of the back of my skull up over my right ear. Many cat scans. Two days in Intensive Care, and I was released to heal bs on all of that. I have, at least for now, lost most of the hearing in my right ear. I am way off balance the courts agree with you on that. The doctors hope the hearing ill return, but thus far, there has been no change. all I want for Christmas is my hearing aid
So, I'm alive. but not well on any level
No one has tried to put me in jail for anything....or maybe they can't find me why are you hiding?. I've never done anything to be put in jail, but as we know, we have corrupt judges and law enforcement people in every nook and cranny of America, so anything is possible with these criminals. your day will come
I can't function very well because I am so off balance its good that you finally admit it, thats the first step, but I am pleased to report that Facebook has been sued for removing the Lawless America page claiming it promoted nudity, pornography, and solicitation of sex. Complete horse manure, and I have the proof. cue the circus music
I am also pleased to report that Soushie has been sued in federal court in Montana you mean you want to?. This is the criminal who has threatened to kill me at least 16 times who is being protected by law enforcement and the courts in Ravalli and Missoula counties in Montana. I'm hoping the federal courts there might not approve of what the state courts are doing in protecting this criminal. (See www.seanboushie.com). uhhhhh.....isn't that the website you were ordered to remove? Remember that little quip about never being put in jail?
And I am equally pleased to report that Joeyisalittlekid.blogspot.com has been sued. ahhh, yes it was and a hilarious slap down of John Margetis by Google was the result, thanks for the year in review. So, I now have litigation pending in Missouri, Kansas, Montana, and Texas what about facebook? They are in California...remember what I said about not keeping all your stories straight?. With a little luck, someone associated with one of these cyberstalking groups will have money, and I will get millions that can be used in our efforts to save America its nice of you to admit to what all your vexatious activities are about. I also expect to get precedents established that should cause other would-be cyberstalkers to think twice before cyberstalking. you might also want to run in the next Boston Marathon....but neither one is going to happen.
Movie and TV work continues, but at a slow pace due to the fact that I'm not doing it and never planned to fractured skull and loss of hearing.
I will resume a weekly radio show in January but I won't be taking any calls as you see I can't hear...its not that I dont care, I just cant hear any of you. Sundays at 7 pm Central Time ummm 7 is too early for me Bill, I checked your schedule and you are can move that back till 9 like always. The first show of 2014 will be January 12, 2014. so what year will that be?
Once again, i will try to start doing regular updates here here being a facebook page? The same facebook you claim to be suing? hmmm how long will that last?. If my hearing would just return, I'd be back in full action. meaning what? You are going back on the road to film a movie? Or do we have a new lie already cooked up?
Happy New Year everyone you damn Joeys.....look what you made me do. or as happy as possible in light of the massive dishonesty an corruption that has stolen our rights from us and ruined America. you are more than free to move to another country Let's hope we make some significant headway in educating our fellow Americans in 2014. you won't make nearly as much headway as we will in educating everyone to who and what Bill Windsor is

Monday, December 30, 2013

Bill Windsor Vs Boushie

While the lemmings continue to send out distress signals for an answer to why their messiah has seemingly left them (no Merry Christmas or happy new year) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9JBE2F8VQk , Bill continues to double down in his fight against a protective order from Boushie against him in Montana.

One quick check of the docket at http://supremecourtdocket.mt.gov/search/case?case=16616 we can see that Bill is certainly alive and up to his usual horseplay in the courtroom.  In this great showdown between Bill and Sean one might ask the question "what are we fighting for?"....oh yeah, a stupid protective order is all. Boushie is trying to get the appellate court to ignore Bill's appeal of the PO because he is a vexatious litigant. But that doesn't really have anything to do with things like a protective order.  Meanwhile, Bill is saying hey...while I got you here and after all this talk of me being a vexatious litigant, could I please be allowed to sue Sean Boushie in civil court?  Thats right, Bill is desperately trying to figure out a way to parley his appeal of Sean's PO in to civil litigation against Sean.

Sean has his own problems as Bill has raised the flag to the court that Sean's hands are not only tiny, but they may also be unclean.  Boushie's claim of never emailing Bill could prove to be his undoing if Bill is allowed discovery on that particular point and known IP's can be traced to those emails.  The old saying of if you play with the pigs you are going to get dirty comes to mind.  Sean made a mistake by taking action, having learned nothing from Allie in her attempt to get a PO, against Bill.  He then compounded his mistake by misleading the court in saying he has never emailed Bill.  Because of that, a long costly court battle may be on the horizon as the court may see both sides with unclean hands.  In the end this is how Bill wins.  If he can get you to spend money to defend yourself against his allegations, that alone will bring this lonely old man joy.

Sunday, December 22, 2013

As Nancy says, Where there is smoke, there is fire.

While Bill has been busy with court filings, the lemmings have been running loose. Many of them are fraternizing with people and groups Bill specifically told them not to. One loose lemming, Nancy Evans Figat wandered over to the club house, and doesn't want to leave. While it was a bit amusing in the beginning, her stories have become more and more delusional.
Nancy tried to tell Bill, that we are all her ex, and variations of his many personalities. Bill didn't reply. So, Nancy aka KittyKat unleashed her conspiracy theories about who we are, and why we are here posting on this blog. Forget the pesky details that this blog has been around longer that Windsor's conspiracy group, Nancy knows better. NOT! (sorry Nancy, last time, we are not your ex, or any variations of your ex, friends with your ex, or any such nonsense. Bill is the one who believes you people, not us...)
‎"Today, ‎December ‎22, ‎2013, ‏‎6 hours ago | noreply@blogger.com (kittykat)
It just occurred to me to look at your connection to the mental health field past three years, suddenly that is your new defense. Bill needs help, Crystal her too everyone including me are expected to go on psych meds. Due to your being unable to manipulate and control us like you do to my kids. Into believing that you are some great Messiah, like Charles Manson or Rev.Jim Jones. We dont refer you only because WE know that YOU are just one very mentally disturbed fucked up Asshole. Simple..thats all."
Wait what? Crystal needs help? Who said anything about Crystal. Do you mean Crystal Cox?
"Kittykat December 19, 2013 at 6:26 PM
May I suggest, that you focus in yourself all of yourselves.Instead of people like myself, Crystal Cox and Bill Windsor. Start stalking yourself.Start with the above crimes, Taunt yourself about them too.Call yourself, on your own cell from the cell of one if your alters.You love to do evil thibgs in darkness.Then you get pleasure by using cell ph.to taunt the victims families.Taunting gets you excited.
You have been unsuccessfully, trying to taunt me, using my son Mike.Sorry, it doesnt work anymore.You only had fake power, fake is fake =no power at all.
Yes.Crimes involving taunting of the victims families after the fact.The Long Island Serial Killer, he taunted victims family by using her cell ph.to call them.Hmm..was that you from NYC?The other girl from Medford?
Taunting, is a dark sinister act performed secretely.
As far as Angels go.The Devil, was once an Angel.Who fell.A fallen Angel.
Some food for thought.Bon Apetite."
Why yes, yes she does. In her delusional ramblings, a piece of clarity or truth seemed to escape. Now, why does Kittykat keep mentioning the connection between Crystal Cox, and Bill Windsor? Bill cut ties with Crystal, supposedly. He put her name on his "haters" list, (page 3) which he presented to the court in Kansas as one of the 532 people he said he knows or strongly believes to be "stalking" him.  Interesting.
Crystal runs a website (one of her numerous domains) for another one of the people Bill put on his haters list and who he is currently trying to serve for his lawsuit in Kansas (unsuccessfully), Loryn Ryder. Bill made it clear, that he would NOT associate with anyone affiliated with, friends with, "likes", or anything close, with AMPP or who he deemed a hater. (Speaking of domain's...I forgot to mention Crystal and her counter part Bernstein had the Sean Boushie domain before Bill "acquired" it...things that make you go hummm)
This raises many questions into why Bill is so hell bent on going after people? Maybe some of KittyKat's conspiracy theories have rubbed off on me. Lets take a closer look at one set of connections Bill has to people who have been unsuccessful in litigations. Who's opponents are those same people Bill now has targeted as "haters." All of the "Montana" videos Bill made, he tried desperately to connect the same people Cox has issue with. (while there are more connections between failed lawsuits (or issues) with Bill supporters, and Bill proclaimed "Haters" we'll just focus on this one...for now)
Crystal Cox/Eliot Bernstein and Bill Windsor connections re: "Haters"
Roxanne Grinage
Sean Boushie
The University of Montana
Royce Engstrom
Police departments and Judges in Montana
(Just to name a few)
Just how close are Bill and Crystal? The similarities are uncanny. Would it be a possibility that Cox/Bernstein offered Windsor something, to go after certain people? There is a lot of money riding on this if they could  "help" him win in Montana. Just sayin...
Awesome break down of Cox's litigations. A must read, then compare with William M Vexatious Windsor.

Article contributed by Ninja

Monday, December 16, 2013

We Spoiled Bill's Pie

Marty Prehn, lemmings, losers, and zombies are Lawless Americas cult following.

Windsor checked in with his few remaining lemmings last night:

Bill Windsor December 15, 2013 -- 11:15 pm: I am feeling better today. I am no longer in excruciating pain when I chew...just some discomfort. Still not much progress on the hearing in my right ear. Not as dizzy as I was -- just a little off balance. After eating nothing but chicken noodle soup for several days, I ordered a pizza, and I've felt better ever since. There's a lot to report on the criminal cyberstalkers who have ruined my name and reputation online. I have people refusing to have anything to do with me because of the garbage. While that makes me upset, each time it happens, I add it to the damages file. I will continue to sue each and every one of the cyberstalkers.

Besides the typical self centered diatribe about what all he did today, notice the last part. Those pesky "cyberstalkers" have ruined his name and reputation....ruined as in past tense. Then the kicker, he has people refusing to be scammed by him thanks to all this online exposure, and while that ticks him off it makes me smile. He is directly giving us credit for not being able to get more victims of his scams thanks to the continual exposure. Ahhh but yeah, he is tacking on all this reputation damage to his lawsuits. I think even he knows just how scared we are of his litigious desires by now.

Then its always fun to do a lemming check and see how they respond to bill...besides the usual hero worship and the "all you need is a juicer" claims.....we get this:

Nancy Evans Figat Bill I know you doubt me.But..My gut rarely fails me. Those Cyberstalkers, are my ex.and his many fake profiles.Talking to eachother.I am soo tuned on to everything.I KNOW the lingo, I know his writing on the court docs you posted.They match my court documents, and many deed transfers and mortgage sats..He has court access, across US A.Crime ring is huge.He is signing for the judges, cops even doctors.Of course there is a reason. 4 hours ago · Like Nancy Evans Figat I am going to out those Yappys, Snordgrass psycho with Disasociative Identity Disorder.These are alters.They get on my Facebook page all the time.Have to unfriend non people..they are just profiles. 4 hours ago · Like Nancy Evans Figat He really has declined so much that, he has nothingbettertodotoday.He is the fatty, the pervert, fraudster and conman.COUNTER TRANSFERENCE. He sees his shortcomings in others, always did. 4 hours ago · Like

Ahhh, now there is an idea. Since Bill won't pay attention to our issues, lets claim that our problems are also Bill's problems. Sure, why not, when you spend your entire life making things up on the fly, what is to stop you from making a claim like that? This is the umpteenth time some certifiable lunatic has decided that everyone that posts here must all be the same person with split personalities. It must be difficult for all of Bills followers to have to come here to get their updates. Reality is like sunshine to zombies.

Friday, December 13, 2013

Bill Windsor's Tall Tale Gets Him A Stay of Execution

Even though his life was supposedly in danger as he had cracked his skull and was bleeding from his ear, Windsor was still somehow able to rush his version of the dog ate my homework excuse up to the appellate court in Montana.  Yes, never mind that all the roads were icy and shut down. Never mind that he was supposedly in the hospital as they performed multiple cat scams to check from brain damage.  No no, that can wait, first thing is first he must submit his lie to court so that he can get extra time to develop his new lies.

The reality is that Windsor has so many vexatious cases going right now he can't keep them all straight. While he was busy trying to subpoena a cookie in Kansas, he forgot that his answer to Boushie's motion for dismissal was due.  That is when it became imperative to hit his head on the ice.  And his lie paid off, he was able to buy an extra two weeks in Montana which is now due on the 20th.  Its funny how kids break in to his car and only take his laptop, or his slips on ice right before he is due to answer in court.  Once we look at his life we can see that this is only par for the course.  Windsor has been lying to take advantages of loopholes in our legal system all his adult life.  In fact, that may be the only thing he is really good at doing.

But reality won't be delayed forever.  Extra time won't give him that hidden cookie recipe he so craves. Even with the extra two weeks the clock will run out and he won't be able to give the Montana court a compelling reason not to dismiss the case.

Monday, December 9, 2013

Bill Windsor Takes a Dive

Its not easy being a vexatious litigant.  Bill Windsor checked in today with his new story that he had fallen on ice and cracked his skull.  Yes with looming mental exams on the horizon, Windsor has decided to beat his detractors to the punch and declare himself not right in the head.  Even though everyone was told to shelter in place, Bill thought it was his American duty to venture out and see if it was safe to travel to the local Golden Corral.  Now his lemmings must once again pray for (or to?) their messiah as he will not be able to make it to his upcoming court dismissals.

BILL WINDSOR IS ALIVE, BUT HE SUFFERED A FRACTURED SKULL ON DECEMBER 6, 2013. are we talking to ourselves in third person now?
I slipped and fell on some ice. I hit my head how can anyone who feels themselves falling not put their hands out to brace themselves and protect their head?. I started bleeding from my right ear maybe your ear just had enough of listening to your lies. I was taken to the Emergency Room by a fire department ambulance wasting tax payer dollars again. Several cat scans and all types of tests were run, and I was diagnosed with Basal _______ Skull Fracture that extends to my right jaw.
I was transferred to another hospital that has a neurosurgeon on duty at all times you should have gone to the vet, hospitals are for real people. More tests, more cat scans to eliminate neck and spinal cord involvement. Diagnosis confirmed.
I can't hear out of my right ear....not yet known if the hearing will come back it matters little though because I only hear what I want to anyway. I feel like a truck hit me I can see how your fat ass hitting the pavement might feel like that, constant headache, blurred vision didn't you complain about this before?. But I am told that I am very lucky to have avoided brain damage ohhh I would get a second opinion on that.
It is hard for me to sit here and type oh you are such a trooper, doing this just for the poor little lemmings, but I will update all of you wonderful people regularly. "wonderful people" did you hear that? That means he is going to be looking for donations again, fire up the paypal accounts, Windsor fell on his ass
NEVER WALK ON ICE. NEVER. thanks, but I already knew that, you skate on ice

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Those who can, do. Those who can’t, bully.

By NBTDT (Title by Tim Field Foundation)

The beginning purpose of this blog was to give people interested in the activities of an on-line bully a place to sort out fact from fiction through factual discussion of related events and sharing opinions. Over time our cause evolved into discussion to find the truth about other on-line personalities that claim their activities serve the public’s interest and the greater good. In searching for the truth, it is necessary to voice your own and consider the opinions of other people. An opinion is defined as:

 1. A belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by positive knowledge or proof

 2. A judgment based on special knowledge or given by an expert

 3. A judgment or estimation of the merit of a person or thing

 4. The prevailing view, i.e. public opinion.

 5. Law A formal statement by a court or other adjudicative body of the legal reasons and principles for the conclusions of the court.

Those contributors that are interested in nothing but the truth of a matter always separate fact from opinion and always support their facts and the basis for their opinions. As always happens when there is more than one person involved in anything, differences of opinion arise. The ability to handle an opinion different than our own is necessary for finding the truth and for personal growth. Contributors interested in the truth and personal growth can be identified by these behaviors in addressing differences:

 · Stays focused on the issue, not the other person

 · Keeps an open mind, seeks to understand different views

 · Never says the other person is wrong based on his/her personal perspective

 · Seeks a way to learn from the difference

 · Avoids arrogance and stubbornness

 · Thinks critically and re-thinks a position

 · Patience, makes it easy for the other person to re-think position

 · Respects the other person, leaves emotion (especially anger) out of it

 · If there cannot be agreement, parties agree to disagree then walk away from the topic

Those contributors that can manage different opinions do so and have become valuable members of this group. Contributors and personalities we’ve followed that cannot support their statements and/or lack ability to manage different opinions resort to bullying. The bullies will not recognize themselves in the information provided below. The information is to assist potential victims in recognizing bullying tactics so that a bully can be spotted more quickly and engagement avoided more easily.

The Tim Field Foundation published a paper in which one of the rules of dealing with bullies is to understand why people bully. According to an article in “Yourself Series”, there are 4 basic reasons why people cyber-bully:

1) Revenge. In this case, people who bully feel they are righting wrongs or protecting other people. Usually these people do not see themselves as bullies.

2) Power. In this case, people who bully are trying to show others how powerful they are. They want to make others do what they want and have control over them. They want others to be fearful of them.

3) Entertainment. Sadly, some people find bullying others entertaining. They think embarrassing others is funny. Usually these people Cyber-bully in groups, such as at a slumber party, or on a sports team outing. Having an audience is part of what makes this type of Cyber-bully fun.

4) Stupidity. Did we really just write that? Stupidity in this case means being unaware of your actions. Bullies in this category just respond to emails and postings without thinking, and thus, often inadvertently hurt other people. They click before they think.

Next it’s important to identify common traits and behaviors of a cyber-bully, which according to the Tim Field Foundation, are:

 1. Jekyll & Hyde personality:

-charming with peers and superiors, vicious and vindictive in private and to victims

 -possessed of an exceptional verbal facility and will out maneuver most people in verbal interaction, especially at times of conflict

 -unusually skilled in being able to anticipate what people want to hear and then saying it plausibly cannot be trusted or relied upon

 -highly manipulative, especially of people's perceptions and emotions (eg guilt)

 -often has an overwhelming, unhealthy and narcissistic attention-seeking need to portray themselves as a wonderful, kind, caring and compassionate person, in contrast to their behavior and treatment of others; the bully sees nothing wrong with their

2. Exploits the trust and needs of organizations and individuals, for personal gain

 -self-opinionated and displays arrogance, audacity, a superior sense of entitlement and sense of invulnerability and untouchability

 -take risks that others would regard as foolhardy

 -often act out of gratification and self-interest only

 -As leaders they are autocratic and dictatorial. Most of their actions, most of the time, are dictated by self-interest, self-aggrandizement and self-preservation

 -If crossed or unwittingly criticized, bullies can hold grudges for long periods and act on them late

 -behavior and chooses to remain oblivious to the discrepancy between how they like to be seen and how they are seen by others

 -has a deep-seated contempt of clients in contrast to his or her professed compassion

 -is a control freak and has a compulsive need to control everyone and everything you say, do, think and believe; for example, will launch an immediate personal attack attempting to restrict what you are permitted to say if you start talking knowledgeably about psychopathic personality or antisocial personality disorder in their presence - but aggressively maintains the right to talk (usually unknowledgeable) about anything they choose

 3. Convincing Liar

-Makes up anything to fit their needs at that moment; excels at deception and should never be underestimated in their capacity to deceive

-using gossip, back-stabbing and falsehood to undermine and discredit targets and others

-Background checks may reveal that their qualifications, experience, titles, entitlements or affiliations are ambiguous, misleading, or false.

-distorting, twisting and fabricating criticisms and allegations to justify implementing a disciplinary procedure

-criticize someone for doing something, and then do it themselves

4. Damages the health and reputations of organizations and individuals

-holds deep prejudices (eg against the opposite gender, people of a different sexual orientation, other cultures and religious beliefs, foreigners, etc)

-Serial bullies detest anyone more competent or popular than themselves, serial bullies despise anyone who enables others to see through their deception and their mask of sanity

-undermines and destroys anyone who the bully perceives to be an adversary, a potential threat, or who can see through the bully's mask

-is adept at creating conflict between those who would otherwise collate incriminating information about them

-A serial bully will not consider any boundaries when it comes to attacking his target. If the target does not bend to the serial bully’s will, the serial bully will go after others who matter to the target including the target’s children. When this happens, the serial bully sees nothing wrong with his or her behavior

-where a serial bully sees opportunity for himself or herself, he or she capitalizes on issues in order to gain attention for himself or herself. In other words, the serial bully thoroughly enjoys exploiting others’ misadventures, suffering and/or grief as a vehicle for personal gain. Examples would be misappropriating Twitter hashtags to attack someone the serial bully has targeted for cyber mobbing.

-provoking a target into giving an emotional or irrational response, and then seizing on it as evidence of the target's impropriety

5. Reacts to criticism with Denial, Retaliation, Feigned Victimhood
-refuses to be specific and never gives a straight answer

-is evasive and has a Houdini-like ability to escape accountability, when called to account, immediately and aggressively denies everything, then counter-attacks with distorted or fabricated criticisms and allegations; if this is insufficient, quickly feigns victimhood,

-may pursue a vindictive vendetta against anyone who dares to hold them accountable, perhaps using others' resources to attack his target, and will be contemptuous of the damage caused to other people and organizations in pursuance of the vendetta

-sometimes displays a seemingly limitless demonic energy especially when engaged in attention-seeking activities or evasion of accountability

-Those with average or below average verbal skills will still attempt to get out of trouble by lying or deliberately missing the point

6. Blames Victims

 -When something goes wrong, the bully will instinctively blame someone else before accepting responsibility.

-Bullies will make (or persuade others to make) decisions that are extremely damaging to other people, without the slightest concern for the effects of the damage on the person affected; any damage incurred is the fault of the target who would not yield to the serial bully’s demands

Common Intellectual traits are:

-is emotionally retarded with an arrested level of emotional development; whilst language and intellect may appear to be that of an adult, the bully displays the emotional age of a five-year-old

-exhibits unusual and inappropriate attitudes to sexual matters, sexual behavior and bodily functions

-Some have been described as being like a real life "Walter Mitty" (an ineffectual person who indulges in fantastic daydreams of personal triumphs)

-loudly profess some religious belief or affiliation, but have none of the requisite qualities of a believer or affiliate

-The bully may be unable to maintain confidentiality, but breaches it with misrepresentation, distortion and fabrication

-They are emotionally untrustworthy

-Their writing style may be disjointed, lacking flow and consistency, tending to be filled with contradictory statements.

-They seem unaware that listeners do not all appreciate lies, ridiculous propositions, tasteless comments, malicious gossip and sick jokes that come out in the process

-typically have poor interpersonal and social skills, and miss even the most obvious social cues

-Important and urgent tasks can be jeopardized while the bully fusses - and forces others to fuss - over trivia.

Introvert Bullies, the most dangerous types:

They tend to sit in the background and recruit others to do the bullying for them. Become alert to provocation. It could be called "The Baiting Game". A provocative comment is made and those who respond spontaneously in irritation (eg non-assertively) are then encouraged to engage in conflict with those who respond without irritation (eg assertively). The provoker watches, waits and stirs the pot with the occasional additional provocation.

Ok, now that we know why and how a bully behaves, how do we avoid them and what do we do about them to preserve our right to peace in discussing relevant events and issues?

The number one rule is: don't respond, don't interact and don't engage. It's a natural response to want to defend yourself, and to put the person right. However, never argue with a serial bully; it's not a mature adult discussion, but like dealing with a child or immature teenager; whilst the serial bully may be an adult on the outside, on the inside they are like a child who's never grown up - and probably never will. Serial bullies and harassers often have disordered thinking patterns and do not share the same thoughts or values as you.

The sixth rule in Mr. Field’s list is the second on mine. Become an observer. Although you may be the target of the cyber-bully's anger, you can train yourself to act as an observer. This takes you out of the firing line and enables you to study the perpetrator and collect evidence (keep copies of all e-mail and posts). When people use bullying behaviors they project their own weaknesses, failings and shortcomings on to others. In other words, they are telling you about themselves by fabricating an accusation based on something they themselves have done wrong. Whenever you receive a flame mail or hate mail, train yourself to instinctively ask the question, "What is this person revealing about themselves this time?"

And finally, the lesson Bill Windsor should have learned: Sometimes refusing to respond and engage will result in the cyberbully losing interest and going off to find someone easier to torment. Sometimes though, especially if there has been interaction in the past, the cyberbully is so obsessed that s/he cannot and will not let go. You will have to make that person let go, but only through swift, hard, legal action, and only when the time is right. Don't deal with the abuser yourself (this encourages bullies and stalkers), use a third party such as a solicitor.